More Bridal advice… Because making your day awesome is what I’m all about.

I was in a conversation with a bride the other day as we were talking about all the great things she wanted to do with her wedding, I suddenly realized the conversation had shifted to things she didn’t like about other people’s weddings. There really isn’t anything new about that. Most brides give a list of likes and dislikes, but what struck me was how often I’ve heard some of the same dislikes.

The biggest thing most of the girls tend to focus on when it isn’t their wedding is the reception. Most of the complaints I hear are about how the flow wasn’t right, or the music wasn’t any good. I have to admit, I’ve had those same thoughts while shooting receptions. The truth is while the Bride and Groom will focus on the photography and the little details, the guest will focus on the entertainment.

So here’s the deal. In today economy most brides are looking for ways to save money and DYI weddings are easy solution. However, they almost always come with a hidden price. The first place couples try and save money is on the DJ or Band and instead opt of a fully loaded iPod. It sounds like a good idea, but let me tell you, your guest will know the difference. A really good DJ is able to keep the party going. They are also very important to keeping the flow of the reception and events on time.

So what does the DJ have to do with the photographer?

As the photographer the FIRST thing I do when I get to a wedding or reception is meet up with the DJ. We coordinate what’s going on. I make sure I know what his cues are for the first dance, cutting of the cake, bouquet toss, you name it, the DJ usually is the one to make it happen. An iPod simply can’t do that. It also can’t select the right song at the right time or take request easily. A great DJ also knows when to crank up the music once the grandparents leave and really get the party started.

A great DJ will also keep an eye on the photographer and make sure they are ready before starting a special dance or event. The worst thing in the world is for the photographer to be in the back of the reception changing batteries, lens, or memory cards and here “…and now the bouquet toss”. The best DJs know it’s just as important that the photographer is ready as the rest of the crowd.

I try to not turn my posts into commercials, but in this case I need to make an exception.

If you want a great DJ, call DJ Michael Joye 803-732-2800. or djmichaeljoye@aol.com

Michael is by far the best DJ I’ve worked with. He knows what he’s doing, he’s professional and best of all he isn’t going to break the bank. Michael and I work great together and if you hire both of us together you’re not going to have to worry about a thing. You’ll have more fun and less stress knowing we are working together to make your wedding day unforgettably great!